Victor Peace shares impact his divorce from Cece Sagini had on him
Victor went on to add that he is not advocating for people to be in situations.
‘Immediately after the marriage, I had this energy in me that I wanted to prove my worth to the world.
I now understand why situation ships are important.
My aim at that time was not to date anyone.
I started attracting people who were emotionally unavailable like I was and this was perfect for me.
I knew there was no end goal to it, and I also felt safe as we would negotiate any form of exclusivity.
The problem is one person catches feelings.”
His advice to anyone who has just left a marriage or a long-term relationship?
“Do not make rush permanent decisions. “
Has he healed?
“One year after the breakup and as I was sitting to be served a wave of emotion came and slapped me and I started breaking down.
I ran out of the banking hall and stood outside the hospital and it hit me that you might think you have made progress but you haven’t.
Healing is not linear.”